I have a male
friend with whom I have the neatest relationship. We are not “in love” but truly love each
other. Since we have known each other,
we both have been in relationships with other people and that’s okay. There is no jealousy involved; we are both
genuinely happy for the other, as long as they are happy. We are very open with each other about any
and every thing. There have been times
when we are both single that we ‘hook up’.
We easily transition from friends to lovers and back. I would do anything in the world for him as
he would for me.
He is coming
over this weekend and we are both quite excited about that. I cautioned him that I have to go to church
on Sunday as I am putting flowers on the altar in memory of my Mom. To my surprise and delight he asked to go
with me. He is not a church type guy at
all but wants to be there with and for me because I sometimes have a tough time
with this service.
I am very
grateful and blessed to have this amazing guy in my world!
aka: FWB (Friends with Benefits), nothing wrong with it. But be careful, if your next squeeze learns that you've carried on in bed with your best guy pal, he may not feel comfortable with the two of you being together. Jealousy can happen even after the FWB relationship is over.
ReplyDeleteThat's nice that he was there to support you through your difficult time. Your mom's memory lives on even today!
only a very foolish person would let a new squeeze learn about a FWB and my momma didn't raise no fools
DeleteI wish he lived closer, like maybe in the same province, instead of 400 miles away!
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